I really get tired of hearing people say, “Everything
happens for a reason.” I don’t believe it’s true. Not the way they mean it. They’re
implying that everything that happens to us – good or bad – is part of God’s
big plan. We won’t be discussing my reasons for disagreeing because I want to
dwell on an alternate theory: Everything that happens to us is an opportunity.
We are shaped by a world that is beyond our control,
but we are also shaped by the choices we make. Things that happen to us require
us to make choices and those choices make things happen. The random happenings
of our lives and the choices we make and the results of those choices are fuel
for the fire of our memory. Remembering adversity helps us to grow stronger. Remembering
the results of our bad choices schools us to make good choices. Calling to mind
the good things gives us hope.
To paraphrase a famous quote: those who forget the
past are doomed to repeat it. We shouldn’t forget the bad things that happen to
us – and especially the bad choices that probably led to them. But what we
should dwell on is God’s
faithfulness.
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