I used to think I was an extrovert. Or maybe I should say,
I think I used to be an extrovert. In high school, when they were administering
aptitude tests to help us determine our career path, I distinctly remember
saying, “I want to work with people.” Well, that was before I had much
experience with people. After decades of
dealing with the public, I find that people tend to drain me. I can still be a
good team player but I really prefer to work independently.
Surprisingly, there are people out there who have the
ability to boost my energy level. People like Stephanas, Fortunatus and
Achaicus, who supplied Paul with what he needed and refreshed his spirit. How
delightful it is to be in the presence of someone like them. And what would it
be like to be one of those people?
Each of us has the ability to be a Stephanas, a Fortunatus
or an Achaicus under the right circumstances. Let’s face it, we can’t be all
things to all people all the time – but we can be something to some of them some of the time. Cultivate a generous spirit and concentrate on
doing what you do well. Ask God to make you aware of needs that you can meet.
Reflect on behaviors that refresh you and see if you can develop some skills
that don’t come naturally to you. Brighten the corner where you are!
And, when someone has supplied a need for you or has
refreshed your spirit, follow Paul’s example and give them the recognition they
deserve. Take another tip from Paul and tell them: “I always thank God for you,
mentioning you in my prayers.” (I Thessalonians 1: 2, paraphrased.)
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